imaginary conversation 12

•July 5, 2009 • Leave a Comment

I should have been doing homework; piles of undone costing, human resources and cooking homework lay around my computer desk at home. But, the day was breeze and beautiful and it seemed restless in a sort of way.  So I put on my coat and pants grabbed my sunglasses along with my apple laptop and headed to my car.

After about an hour or driving around, I decided to eat a little Greek Café along Los Altos Boulevard and Kane, just a few minutes from work.

“I have never come here with Tati,” was the thought that came to my mind.  And at the thought my thoughts became sad, musing about last night and how even though we tried nothing was solved.

I sat down after ordering and began to write the events of the night before. I typed really fast the words flowing out of my head onto my hands. They came fast in sentences that soon turned to paragraphs and then before long I had a string of pages flowing through my page.

I didn’t stop except for the occasional look at cars that drove past my tiny outdoor table. A grey SUV driving slowly as if lost, a white Honda, with tinted windows and followed by a white Suzuki van. A black Mercedez convertible with an older couple letting their hair fly in the wind, as if relieving some long lost memories. Late came a silver Jaguar, long and elegant, riding up with easy knowing everyone is looking. And so on random cars that I turned to every once in a while, deciding what the owner should be and then going on with my writing.

I wrote about my wild nights of parting in the scope of things really did not seem so bad. I wrote about my hurt feelings as her eyes looked untrusting toward me. I wrote about the comfort that Karina’s invitation had brought and the confusion when she spoke of Ryan. I didn’t know if it all made sense, but life didn’t always make sense.

In the shade the day began to get chilly and so I decided to wrap things up and get dressed for work. I sighted at the though of confronting Tati again, I had been avoiding her since the night before. I called as promised once I checked on the girls and then headed of to bed. Careful to wake up earlier that her I headed out the door. When I returned to the house she was not there, I already knew that. She closed tonight again. 

“Hello, Tatiana,” I said using her full name as I always did at work.

“Hello, Anahi,” she answered.

“I brought you lunch,” I said offering a sweet smile.

“Its in the office, got you the grilled veggie sandwich from the restaurant across the house,” I spilled before she could speak.

“Thank you,” she said,

“I’ll eat it later,” she said monotone, which signaled that she still hadn’t gotten over last night.

I was about to give her a sincere apology, a stop to our awkward silence, but just then a group of server gathered around us and I stopped the words from coming out. This conversation would have to wait till tonight.

As fate would have it, there was a take-out call-out and I was no doubt recruited to cover. I would be closing again, alone with Tatiana. This would be the make or break. I seriously considered moving out, this affected both of or work environments and I didn’t want to continue on like that.

The night was bad enough, with the stress visibly palpable between Tatiana and me. Every time I asked for something she was not cheerful, it got a point when I asked someone else to ask her for something. Then Karina came and handed me a soft pink bag, with the fluffy paper you put in that sort of gift bag.

“ I got you the shirt you liked the last time we went shopping,” said the note attached. And I didn’t bother opening it; I knew what she was talking about.  It was a white silky shirt, with black trimming and a silver belt under the bust line. I had made a comment last time and then turned over the tag and realized that I did not want to buy it at that time.

“Awww, Karina you didn’t have to get that for me,” I told her sincerely thinking that she had spent too much on me.

“I wanted to,” she answered smiling expecting.

I went to give her a hug and whispered, “Still I don’t really need a gift I just want all the people I love to be close to me.”

“Shush,” she signaled with her finger to her lips and a smile. “I don’t want another word out of you.”

“Okay,” I said complacently, “Thank you so much.”

“I want to see it on you, so you have to come to lunch tomorrow, we are having a backyard picnic,” she asked almost ordering.

“Okay I will be there…”

Just as I was smiling and almost forgetting the sadness that was weighting me down, Tati came around the corner and saw the gift bag in my hand.

“Are you guys slow, so I can face one of you, “ she said talking to me and the other takeout girl, but clearly directing her words to Karina, a certain sort of reproach for distracting us. But inside I knew she would not have done that if she were not mad at me. Another notch for me to quit, this was affecting out job too much. No wonder the company had strict rules against employee – management relations.

“Yes, we are a bit slow, maybe I can go home?” I said sarcastically.

Karina mumbled something about making a schedule and walked away.

Tatiana let out a forced laughed and said, “good try but you’re closing.

And so she the night dragged on, painfully slow, every second seemed like a minute, and the hours trickled by like sand slipping from an hourglass. Again I found myself trying to get all my work done faster than I usually did. It seemed faster without the distraction of Tati talking to me, the cooks joked around and the final servers hurried to check out as they saw my bleak mood and my one-word answers to their stories about bad tables and good tips.

I was happy that she didn’t come out or call me to he office, because I didn’t have the emotional strength to deal with it right now; however, I also wanted her to come out or call me because it would mean we could fix the problem and signal that she cared.

However neither of the two happened before I had to get her to do the money drop. I pondered for a second should I call her? Would it send a message that I was trying to avoid her, or should I just walk over to her office. Under normal circumstances I would walk to her office, I would probably say something funny or take her a cup of tea or something. I stood there hoping that the silence would make me come up with a quick decision. Yet, it didn’t I took out a bag of strawberries, the ones we used for the chocolate cakes, put them on a place, and took to forks with me. I knocked on her door, she looked up and moved to turn to open the door, and I smiled.

“Hey Tati!”

“Hey, “ she said letting go gently of the door, making sure that I caught it.

I sat on the ledge next to her computer a few inches from her, and let go of the door. It closed with a soft thump and we were left in an awkward silence broken by the hum of the printing machine. 

“Want to share some strawberries?” I said innocently.

A soft smile spread across her face, she took the fork from my outstretched hand and took a bite from the plate.

“Will you share cookies and coffee with me tonight?” she said.

“Tati, I’m soo sorry,” I said taking the opportunity to talk to apologize.

“Don’t be,” she said.

“No, let me talk,” I interrupted, “I want you to know that I think of you as part of my family. What you think really matters, and it’s kind of surprising that it does. I mean I don’t think I’ve ever had such a close friend. Not even Andrea and them. And I realize that this has been blown out of proportion, but I also realize that you were right and I reacted defensively too promptly.  I don’t just want it to be forgotten because if we don’t solve it will come back,” I stopped taking in a deep breath realizing I hadn’t been breathing.

She opened her lips slightly as if to say something, but rather took anther strawberry from the plate and took another bite.

“I have considered leaving the restaurant, because every time we get mad it affect our flow and I just feel bad, so I really think maybe I should leave. On the other hand I also love it here and it would make sad. I just want you to know I am going to make changes in my life in regards to what this whole issue was about, will you forgive me?”

“Will you share cookies and coffee with me tonight?” she asked smiling.

“I want a real answer,” I said reproachfully.

“Baby of course I do, it was partly my fault to and we should have talked this out earlier. Now, I do not want you to quit. I wouldn’t let you. Now for the cookie and coffee, want to go buy some?” she asked handing me a 20 dollar bill.

“Don’t you want to do my drop first?” I asked.

“That would be nice, “ she said getting up and following me to the register.

As we rounded the corner she gave me a friendly push and said, “Let me see the shirt that Karina got you,”

“Don’t be jealous,” I taunted.

“I’m not I’m mad you guys didn’t invite me shopping,”

“OMG!” I laughed using the phrase I was notorious for.

She laughed and we began to do the drop. I finished the paper work rapidly and waved a quick goodbye as I grabbed my bag and my car keys.

“See you at home,” I whispered.

“Are you going to the store?” she asked grabbing her purse.

“Umm yup… yup…” I said walking away.

“Come here,”

“No because the more time you take the more time I wait to eat cookies.”

She laughed, the soft, and cheerful laugh she always had with me and I turned around smiling at her as I walked. Yes, yes I had missed her.

But somehow on the drive there I felt certain loneliness and unsolved sadness that had no certain cause but simply was.  Perhaps it was the relief that came after everything was solved, maybe just a human necessity to be sad sometimes or my subconscious unwilling to accept happiness. Whatever it was, I was melancholy. Nana Mouskouri played in the background of my tears. “Smile though your heart is aching, even though it’s breaking…” I smiled through my tears as the lights soundlessly turned from red to green and I turned into the store. Smile tiny raindrops fell on my window for a second and then stopped. I turned the engine off but left the music, the soft soothing music that continued as my tears gently flowed.

My mother texted me amidst this scene saying she hoped I was okay, and that she had detected a tone of sadness in voice that was due to more than a bad tip day as I had told her.  “Your right I wrote back… there are many other things that make me sad in life… the ending of a great day, sad movie endings, the last page of the book I love, airports, goodbyes, looking back and realizing I didn’t always make the best decision, missing family and loosing friends.”

Delete

I stopped and deleted the message I had written, the last thing I wanted was for my mother to call me worried that I was going through a depressive phase.  I put my phone to my side as the blurry red light turned green. I drove up the hill that led to my house and parked silently. I sat in the quiet, dark car for a few minutes.  A box of chocolate covered Madeline’s and a box of strawberry tea sat on the passengers seat. 

I was thinking of everything I had written to my mother, airports and all the sad memories they brought. The first time I visited one, when we moved to California and left my native country, the book I had just been reading and the fact that it ended and love story had nowhere else to go, I was looking back at the decision I had made since I moved out, and before I moved out and how they hadn’t always been the best ones. I was deep in concentration when suddenly the phone rang and it took me a second to realize that it was ringing. The bright LCD displayed that it was Tati calling and so I took a deep breath and tried to sound cheerful; yet, the thoughts were still playing in my mind.

“Hey what’s up?” I answered.

“Nothing much, are you home yet?” she asked

“Yeah I just pulled up, are you still at work?”

“No, I am getting into my car right now.”

“Okay cool,” I said

“Are you okay? You sound kind of hushed,”

“No, I was in the car… that’s it.’

“Are you sure?”

“Yup 100 percent, just hurry up I got chocolate coved Madeline’s…”

“Okay I’ll be right there…”

“Okay” I said and hung up without waiting for the good bye.

As I entered the house the answering machine blinked incessantly  

“Hi… umm this is Justin I was wondering if maybe you girls had lost my phone number, well specially Tatiana. Give me a call sometime.”

I didn’t know what to feel, I felt a sudden confusion a pang of jealousy? I stood there for a second and almost replayed the message, and then I stopped and walked into my room put my pajamas on, and began to brew some tea.

“Anybody home?”  Tati called jokingly from the front porch.

“Yeah, I’m in the kitchen…” I called back.

She came behind me, grabbing me by the shoulders and then giving me a gentle hug. I smiled trying to hide the thoughts that were still running through my mind. 

“Well you made it home fast,” I said pulling myself away from her embrace, “how fast were you driving?”

“Not fast enough to run a red light,” she said making a reference to my recent red light ticket that the camera, had so unfortunately caught. 

I half laughed.

“Are you sure your okay?” she probed.

“Im fine just kind of tired,”

She opened her lips as if to say something, then paused, came closer to me and hugged me.

“You know I love you a lot right? That you are like a little sister to me, I don’t know why or when but I do. And though I was mad at you it was because I was worried about you. You know I would never hurt you… if you feel sad or anything we can talk it out right? You would trust me right?” she looked at me.

It was rare, like my best friend was asking me to tell her a secret, but at the same time there was a protective vibe like my mother assuring me the monsters would go away from under the bed.

I walked away from her embrace again, turned the teapot off, and grabbed two silver lined cups.

“Okay, your right … I am feeling a bit melancholy.”

I walked out of the kitchen slowly into the dinning room holding the two cups, and two tea bags.

“can you bring a tray and two plates for the cookies?” I said softly.

“A tray and what?”

“Plates,” I said louder this time.

The silence that followed as I sat the cups down and she brought the tray with cookies and two matching silver plates seemed to last an eternity. Suddenly I was eager to tell her my sadness, I wanted her to know how I felt, where my tears came from, that I had almost texted my mother, that I cried in the car. I wanted to tell her everything but I didn’t know where to start.

            “Baby,” she said sitting right next to me, “you’re crying.”

I suddenly realized that hot, damp tears had been rolling down my cheeks, I wiped then away with my hand.

“I don’t know why Tati, I swear. I know some people have bigger problems than I do. You have your divorce and the baby girls for example. I just felt really sad as I was driving, like all the problems of my life came tumbling down. Then my mom texted me that she had heard me sad and I was about to text her the same thing I’m telling you now, but I knew she would call and I didn’t want that. I was happy that we were happy but I felt sad for random thing, my career, my lost friends, my family away, the dumb things I have done lately I don’t know I just felt melancholy,” I said it all really fast rambling like a five-year old who is eager to get attention.

            She smiled, “you’re so young and its okay to feel sad for many reasons.”

“I know, I just feel dumb.”

“Well, I can’t help you there.”

I pulled away managing a smile.

“That’s the girl I want, the one with the big smile.”

I almost said it, almost blurted out, “Justin called,” almost but I didn’t do it I didn’t want to ruin this perfect moment. What would I say after that? You should call him, I’m a bit jealous, cookies? No, I would wait, I would wait till before we go to sleep.

And so I did, we sat together my head leaning on her shoulder and I told her about my day, and she told me about hers too and we laughed as we flipped the channels to watch infomercials and old movies that were on at 2am.

It was a rare moment a combination between that sister I never had and best friends who you are having a sleepover with.

Finally my eyes started to get sleepy and she whispered in my ear, “You want to go to sleep?”

The thought flickered at the back of my mind, I hadn’t told her yet, do I hold it till tomorrow, will she think I was hiding it?

“Yeah,” I say getting up and dragging my feet halfway to the room, then my will betrays me, I turn look at her and say unimportantly, “Justin called.”

For a second she looks at me, “Justin?”

“Yuuup, “ I say and keep on walking.

“Your friend?” she questions.

I think she’s just pretending

“Yuuup,” I say again, “he left a message … to call him back.”

“Oh,” she finally blurts.

I know she’s looking for something to say, I can see her mind searching for something to tell me, she looks up and gets up following me to the room. She sits in the corner of my bed as I fold the covers on top of me.

“Goodnight,” I offer innocently.

“Is that why you were awkward tonight?”

I consider my answer, “I could say no, I could say it had nothing to do with that, but you would think I’m lying and it would give it more importance than in has. Truth is I was feeling sad, my mom and me had a fight, you know. It did feel a little strange, it threw me off, and I didn’t want to make our night awkward that’s why I didn’t say it before. But it doesn’t matter that much. I’m just really glad about tonight.” I say and lean in to hug her.

She stand for a second motionless and as I begin to pull away she hugs me too and whispers, “me too.”

I give her a kiss on the cheek.

“I would never call him back, it flattered me that he liked me, but he’s not my type.”

“To blond I add,” we laugh.

“No, its not that,” she adds.

“Someone else?” I interrupt

“Yuuup,”

“Who is it?” I ask straightening my covers like a little girl who is going to hear a story.

“You know who it is”

“I do? Does he work with us”

“Yuuup,”

“Who, who? A server?”

“No”

“Bar? Eww not Gus”

“Umm, no, why does he like me?

“Is it him?”

“No, no I was just curious?”

“Is it a kitchen person, I’m running out of ideas.”

“Its well there is only manager left.”

I stopped breathing, she must have noticed

the imaginary conversation… continued

•March 20, 2009 • Leave a Comment

            “I’m going out to the club tonight,” I yelled out of my room.

            “Which one?” she asked

            “The one that is like 5 minutes from the house.” I said

There was no response. “Tati?” I probed. “Did you hear me?”

“Uh, yes I did,” she said poking her head in my room.

I was half dressed with a new black and grey dress I had jus bought. My shoes lay on the bed, they were open toed black sandals and I was wearing a multicolored necklace my aunt had given me and a matching purse.

            “You look pretty, “ she said very solemnly and quietly

            “Thanks,” I said looking at myself in the mirror not quite catching the disapproval in her voice. I should have know it instantly my mother used to say things the same way when she wanted to make a point but not straight out.

            “What do you think, tan or blue eye shadow?” 

            “What ever you want,” she said, “you look good either way,” she said as she walked away.

            That’s when I noticed that something was wrong; her face was smiling in a nostalgic sort of way and her sparkly eyes seemed far off. 

            “What’s wrong?” I said dropping my hairbrush and walking behind her.

            “Nothing,” she said, “I’m just having a nostalgic moment and that’s that.

            “Really?” I questioned

            “Yes honestly”

            “I seems like it had something to do with me.”

            “No, not at all, baby you look very pretty.”

            “Will you straighten my hair?” I asked.

            “Sure,” she said, “let me warm up the straightener.”

Once I was ready I took one last look in the mirror and grabbed the keys to my car.

            “Your not driving are you?

            “I’m driving to Andrea’s and then they are driving, why?”

            “Nothing just go,” she said and turned around.

            “I walked out and closed the door behind me, for a second I though about Tati and then I forgot it and was exited for the night ahead. Once I arrived at Andrea’s apartment her two roommates Alexa and her boyfriend Jonas were each holding a drink.

            “Would you like one?” asks Andrea.

            “What is it?” I answered

            “This new pre-mixed drink we found its bomb,” he answered.

            “Okay, that sounds good.”

            “Do you want cranberry vodka or mojito?” he asked holding both bottles.

            “I want the vodka one, “ I said sitting down

            “Good choice,” yelled Alexa from her room,  “I like that one too!”

            We sipped on our drink, ‘pre-drinking’ as we called it as to not buy so many drinks at the club. After that one I had one more cranberry, a mojito and half of something. We watched old episodes of Friends, as everyone got ready.

            “You want me to straighten your hair?” asked Alexa as she did hers.

            “Sure if you want to,” I said, sitting down in from of her.

            The straightening iron seemed warm to the touch and it sent shivers down my spine.

            “I’m going to alternate between my hair and your hair, okay?” she said.

            “Sounds good!” I answered.

            As we neared 10 everyone hustled, “we have to make it before 10, to get in free!”

            “Okay, okay we are ready!”

            Jonas said, “we should take the bottle, there is half of it left.”

He was referring to a bottle of Absolute Peach Vodka, he filled the other half with raspberry lemonade and we took off sipping from the bottle as we drove to pick up one more person.

            Once that task was accomplished as we put the city lights behind for the throbbing lights of the club, every worry was forgotten. The music filled my heart, the lights were dazzling, everyone was dancing, touching it was enthralling, the rhythm of the night took over and I could do nothing else but smile. Then someone bought me drinks, then someone else and finally I bought a round.  It was a miracle I could stand. Though someone later told me in, that I was leaning on her by the end of the night.

            “Finally we left and drove off to the nearest fast food place. Jack in the Box was open; it always is late at night for those hungry drunks like us.

            “What do you want?” asked Andrea who was sitting next to the window.

            “Two crunchy tacos, and fries,” said Karina another friend that had hitched ride with us.

            “I want jalapenos and fries too!” I said.

            “I want chicken strips!” yelled Alexa from the front seat.

            “Crunchy tacos for me too,” said Jonas

            “Me too,” answered Andrea after our entire request.

            “Hi welcome to Jack in the Box how can I help you?” said the booming order box.

            “We want 9 crunchy tacos, small curly fries, medium curly fries a small doctor pepper, chicken strips, and jalapenos.”

            “Okay, that’s going to be 9 crunchy tacos, small curly fries, medium fries and a small doctor pepper, chicken strips and jalapenos?” repeated the booming box following the procedures.

            “Yes,” we answered.

            We pulled up to the window; one lonely guy was at the registered. Apparently he was also frying and cooking, what a bad job.  Within five minutes he had out ordered packaged and ready. We got home eager to eat and after talking for maybe half an hour, we crashed on the sofas, and fell asleep. My phone beeped it was Tatiana. I looked at the clock almost 3 AM. Wasn’t she asleep?

I answered, “Hello?’

            “Hey its Tatiana,” she said.

            “I know” I answered sleepy.

            “Are you coming home?”

            “Ahhh, no I’m staying over at Andrea’s.”

            “Oh, okay,” she said.

            “Night,” I said.

            The receiver on the other side was empty.   She had hung up on me. I didn’t have mindset to realize she was not content, so I just put the phone away and went back to sleep.

            I don’t recall dreaming that night, though I do recall waking up in the morning and being extremely thirsty, this is one of the few times I have gotten that intoxicated. I woke up and everyone else was still sleeping.  I took my phone out, there were zero messages, and a text from my mother with a prayer and the clock marked 9:30AM. I wanted to get up and get food. I tend to get hungry when I drink, yet this was not my house and I didn’t want to be abusive.

            Finally at around 10:00 Karina woke up and realized it was kind of late.

            “Do you work today?” she asked

            “I do, at around four-ish,” I replied.

            “That’s good, “ she said, “I hate going to work hung over.”

            “Yup,”

            “Want to go home?” she said.

            I did, but that meant that I had to drive her home, which was out of the way from where I lived. I though about gas prices and inside me I wanted to say, “Yeah, I want to go to my house.”

            I had spent way too much the day before between, the dress I bought, liquor and food. But, being the good friend I am, I drove her home. She bought me breakfast, the least she could do.

            When I got home it was close to 11, I turned the key and slowly opened the door. Tatiana was sitting in the living room, right by the door on her laptop. She was wearing a grey sweatshirt, with jeans. Her hair was down, and it swiveled a bit as she turned to look at me.

            “Hi,” I said somewhat shyly.

            “Hey, there,” she whispered, “your home!”

            “Yup” I said dropping my keys in the dinner table and trying to get to the stairs.

            “I made you breakfast,” she said.

            “I had a breakfast sandwich in my bag from the local fast food place, next to it sat, crispy cross hatched fries.

            “Thank you,” I said, leaving my bag by the stairs.

            “I’m going to go change really quickly.”

            “Okay,” she said very solemnly.

            I hurried up the stairs, taking my black flats as I reached the top; I took my glasses of, the ones that had been in purse all night long. Last thing I wanted was a birthday picture with glasses. My contacts had not arrived by my birthday, so I decided to just take off my glasses and put them in my purse. Sure I was blind for most of the party, but I looked pretty fro the pictures. However, as morning came I put them on to drive. Now, I wiped my face with a make up remove towel and slid some comfy sweatpants under my dress. Then I proceeded to pull a Mickey Mouse shirt over my body and grabbed my rainbow slippers. I took a quick peek at the mirror in front of me. I looked a lot more decent.

            “How are you feeling?” she asked as I came stairs, slowly grabbing the wall, I was feeling a little dizzy.
            “What do you mean?” I acted innocently, though I knew exactly what she was talking about.

            “I was talking about the fact that you are still drunk.”

            “I’m not drunk,” I stammered defensively as I poured myself some milk and took the plate of food she had in the kitchen.  There was silence on her end of the conversations. In journalism we would call it the pregnant pause, in the restaurant business it’s just called silence. I knew what she was trying to do she wanted me to talk. I took a bite from the cream cheese bagel. I took a sip from my glass of milk; she stopped typing and looked at me. I shyly looked back. I knew all to well she was not going to speak until I did. I wanted to go upstairs and fall asleep, I wanted to drink lots of water, turn on the mellow music and ponder about how much alcohol I had consumed. Yet, my guilty conscience made me speak up.

            “Well,” I said, “I did have a couple of more drinks than I should have.”

            I expected her to give me the motherly talk, the why are you getting drunk so often? The “Honey, you need to watch your drinking, I’m worried about you,” kind of crap. But she didn’t. Instead she kept a silence, turned away and began to type something.  I was confused.

            “Aren’t you going to tell me something?” I asked.

            “ Am I supposed to tell you something?” she asked back without looking at me.

            “I don’t know,” I whispered, “I though you would say something, I don’t know honestly Tati, I’m very tired.”

            “That’s fine, go to sleep when your done, I have to go to work in about two hours.”

            I was taken back, she seemed so mad in the beginning and it was like she didn’t care.  I finished my bagel in silence, and took the plates to the kitchen.  I stood there feeling the warm rush of water on my hands, Tingles went down my spine, I felt tears wanting to come down my face, I could feel them forming up in my eyes.  So, I finished washing my dishes, put them in the dishwasher and then stared out the tiny kitchen window, past the driveway, with the night-lights and the bright green grass on the sides.

            When I turned around, Tati was gone and I felt the loneliness in the house.  I climbed the stairs slowly and just sat at the top. I didn’t make it to my room, I didn’t want to, I sat at the top of the stairs, turned the lights off and cried. I didn’t know why, I didn’t know what triggered it. I wasn’t sorry about getting drunk, it was my birthday, everyone does it, and everybody else was drunk.

            But, somehow her silence hurt more than if she had given me and advice’ talk. And I knew that somehow getting that intoxicated was not acceptable in my culture, the way I was brought up. I grabbed the phone; I paused for a second-guessing my call and then I dialed.

            I was calling Karolina the service manager. She was a very fun person, who had spent Christmas with Tatiana and me and I had told her a couple of my problems with my family and friends. She always understood me and even gave me some advice. I really don’t know why I called her, instead of calling Adriana, Karina or any of my friends, but she sounded like that person that would understand where I was coming from. She herself had some alcohol problems.  The phone rang a couple of times, and I was about to hang up, in a way glad that there was no answer.  Then on the last ring, she answered hurriedly.  “Hello?”

“Hello?”

I didn’t answer.

“Hello?” she said for the third time.

“Karolina? It’s Anahi…”

There was a pause.  I could tell she was a bit surprised.

“What’s up? Is everything okay?”

“Yeah, …”

“Are you sure, you sound a bit different?”

“No, well I mean no I’m not okay I. I “ I stopped.

“Anahi, princess you are worrying me,”

“I just want to talk to someone, I’m soooo sorry about bothering you.”

“Baby you are not bothering me, what’s wrong? Do you want to get some lunch?”

“Yeah that would be fine, but I don’t know where…”

“Okay,” she paused, “get ready I’ll be over and pick you up,”

“Okay,” I said.

“Thank you,” I whispered.

“Your at Tatiana’s house right?”

“Yup,” I said.

“Okay, everything has a solution,”

“Thank you soooo much Karolina I know that you are off today.’

“Your so sweet, you are not a job, I love you okay?’

“I know,”

I hung up the phone and just sat there with my sweats pants, Disney shirt and rainbow slippers.  Why had I called her, why was I sad, I was not sure of my feelings, I was not sure I wanted to open up to Karolina and I really did not want to get up and change clothes.  Yet, I was sober enough to know that Karolina was taking time out of her day to come eat lunch with me.

            I jumped in the shower and let the water run though my flat ironed hair, once I was done I put on my brown sweat suit, a nice frilly pink shirt and brushed my hair. I thought about some make up but as I was about to put some on, the door rang and I knew it was Karolina.

“Hey,” I said as I opened the door.

“Hey girl, what’s wrong?” she said embracing me automatically.

“A lot and yet nothing.”

“That is the worst answer you have ever given me,” she smiled.

“Come on lets get in the car and you tell me,” she pulled.

“Wait let me grab my bag,”

“Just come on its my treat.”

“No, you have done enough by coming by,”

“Lets go, no complaints.”

“Okay,” I smiled, “you win!”

So I climbed in her new Nissan, and we drove off toward the beach.

“Where are we going?” I asked

“There is this really cute place me and my best friend used to go to when she lived in California they have the best paninnis in the world!” she said excitedly.

“I felt really bad when I called you, I kind of calmed down now,” I began

“Shhh,” she signaled with her finger, “ tell me once we are eating,”

I laughed “why?”

“Because…” she paused very seriously her hazelnut eyes looking briefly at me,” everything is better with food.”

I laughed again, this time accompanied by her soft giggle.

And then the silence came over us again, because there was nothing to really talk about.

“How was the big celebration last night?” she asked.

“Okay, I guess?”

“You don’t sound very happy’

“Well that was the whole problem in the first place with Tati.”

“Ahhh,” she whispered            

“Let me guess she got mad because you got drunk?”

I blushed and a mixture of groan and laughter came from my parting lips.

“That’s it, isn’t it?”

I smiled and turned to look at her. “Yeah…”

“Well, baby… she paused as we pulled up to La Creperie Restaurant.

“Please don’t tell me she was right,” I said as I closed the car door.

“Let’s eat.”

“Your were going to say that, weren’t you?” I asked.

“They have great crepes here, you like French food don’t you?”

“You’re trying to distract me aren’t you?”

“And the cappuccinos are so bomb!!”

“Karolina!!”

She grabbed me by the shoulders and gave me a hug,

The hostess came out to greet us, “ How many?”

“Just two,” she answered.

She looked at the restaurant various seats were empty, “Follow me this way,”

“We followed in a straight line, I went in front and Karoline followed me putting her hand on my shoulder.

When we sat down, Karolina instantly ordered two coffees, a toffee nut latte for herself and a mocha cappuccino for me.

“How did you know what I would want?” I asked a bit surprised she had done that.

“Because I know what you want,” she paused raising her hand softly.

“I know you’re young, I know you are successful so far in what you have done, I know you want to have fun,” she said.

“What does that have to do with the coffees or with Tati?” I asked sensing that the conversation was going to steer away from what kind of syrup I wanted in my coffee.

She reached out to grab my hand; it was an awkward like talking to my mother.  Yet, at the same time there was a certain comfort that came from knowing that someone other than your family cared.  

 I took her hand and she was about to speak when the two steaming coffees came and the server asked if we were ready to order. “Sorry ladies, I’m interrupting your mother daughter bonding time, I just wanted to know if you were ready to order.”

We looked at each other and laughed, the young man with curly blond hair and bright blue eyes, looked back at us.

“What’s so funny?”

“Oh, nothing,” I said, “ she’s not my mom.”

“Almost,” Karolina said.

“Well, then that’s’ sweet, family, friends?” he asked.

“She’s my manager,” I answered.

“Oh wow, I wish we got along that well.”

We all laughed

“But more than that we are friends,” she said,”

I shook my head to the server pretending she wasn’t looking.

Karolina laughed, “how mean,”

“I’m just kidding, I love you!”

“Well, lets order, “ she said.

“I want the crème Brule crepe!”

“O I love that one, you beat me,’ she said pausing to look at the menu.

“We can share!” I said.

“Okay, I’ll get the chocolate one and we share.”

“Be right back ladies,” the server whose name turned out to be Tate.

As he left and a moment of silence filled the laughter that had just been there, Karolina leaned closer to me again and said, “It is relevant because Tati knows that, and I know the reason you moved out was to have more freedom. Tati understands that, but she cares a lot about you.”

“Has she told you anything?” I interrupted.

“Well, not technically, but let me finish.” She took a sip from her coffee, “that was good.”

“Coffee is always good!” I said. We were both known coffee junkies, everyone in the restaurant knew that.

“Anyway, there is a point when fun and games can go a little over and start to become a problem.”

“You kind of lost me,” I said honestly.

“You came drunk home today, right?”

“Well, not drunk, but yeah.”

“How many times in the last week has that happened, in the last month?”

I didn’t say anything, her words were hitting home. They were a repetition of what my mother had said before I moved out.

“Karolina, are you saying I have a drinking problem?”

“No, I know that college years are supposed to be like that, I expect you to be drunk sometimes or often. Its part of being young, wanting to feel the freedom of not thinking, and all the socializing that comes with drinking, I know. But speaking from personal experience there is a point where it can exceed the normal part of it. Tatiana just wants you to be careful. She feels a certain responsibility for you, I know she was mad and she didn’t want to say anything today, but she was worried.”

“I know that, and I know its not great to come home hung-over, but it was my birthday, its forgive. And then when I wanted to talk to her I turned around and she was gone, didn’t even say goodbye,” I related to her.

“She didn’t know what to say, I imagine that for her it’s a conflict to feel she can’t intrude in your life as a friend, but her want to keep you safe as mother.”

“Ahhh, I don’t know what to do, what do I say to her?”

 “Well, I don’t know, tell her what you want, what you feel.”

“But, the truth is I have been going out a lot, I have been drinking frequently, gaining weight I don’t know I just though it was normal, I just want to fit in, but at the same time I know its wrong and I feel bad… I’m so confused.”

“I know, I know,” she said and handed me a napkin to wipe my tears.

I did but they rolled out again, and soon sobbing began to make it visible. Karolina stood still for a second, and then she got up from her chair and came over to my side of the table.  She hugged me without asking or saying a word and I hugged her back, resting my head on her shoulder like a little girl snuggling to her mom. Her soft brown hair touched my cheek and her hand patted my back softly as I cried. The waiter came with the food and sensing the moment was an intimate one, just left the food and Karolina signaled that it was okay.  Seconds passed bye like minutes slowly and without a trace, contrary to my tears that left a clean path down my cheek and unto Karolina’s peachy silk shirt.

After a few minutes the tears stopped and I began to gasp softly, I pulled back from her and she wiped my cheeks, “there sometimes we just need to cry.”

            “Thank you I whispered, thank you for caring.”

            “You are the type of person that inspires caring, you care when other people have problems and so those people care when you do.”

            “Well, most of the time I never find them when I need them.”

            “O trusts me there are plenty of people who care about you.”

            “Who? Maybe you should point them out,” I said as I took a bite from my crepe. It had gotten a little cold but it was still very good.

            “Tatiana to begin with, your family, Andrea, Katrina, and other people who have told me.”

            I looked at her curiously, “who?’

            “Can’t tell you,”

            “OMG, who is it? What does it start with?”

            “Which one?”

            “There is more than one? Who is the other?”

            “I said I couldn’t tell you.”

            “Karolina you would not have brought it up, if you didn’t want me to know.”

            “Are we good with the Tati thing? Do you need help? “

            “Help in what?” I questioned.

            “I will tell you the first letter of one, because I don’t think the other one is a good choice for you, but you in return have to a. promise you wont tell I told you and b. promise me you will not drink that often.”

            “Okay, I promise!”

            “I don’t want an empty promise, I will be checking on this. Because then I will feel bad about trusting you if you break my trust.”

            “God you’re so serious, “ I said.

            “I am, we can joke about everything, but I have been down the wrong path and I swear its not good.”

            “I know I’ve heard.”

            “Yeah, I was an alcoholic, and other things, but it has been a long time since I took anything. “

            “I swear honestly, because I want to be happy for myself without any things causing the happiness. “

            “R,” she said.

            “What?”

            “The letter to his name is R,”

            “R?” I was surprised it was not the answer I expected, nor was I sure who it could be.”

            “R?” I repeated.

            “Are you confused?”

            “Honestly that is not the answer I expected. “

            “ I know, “

            “You know who the other person is,”

            “I think so,”

            “Do you want the letter to start with?”

            “I know”

            “Really?”

            “Well, I think”

            “B?”

            She nodded her head.

            “Wow, who told you?”

            “I noticed,”

            “No, someone told you, did they tell you what happened?”

            “ Ummm,”

            “Well, in a nutshell we hooked up, I mean like hooked up hooked up, then we talked for a bit, then he is now seeing someone else, that also works here and she knows.”

            “Is she your friend?”

            “Yeah, and I don’t want to be a bitch and say something about it.”

            “Does Tatiana know?”

            “Umm, I don’t think so, I haven’t told her because I don’t want her to get involved as a GM’

            “Oh, so I can get involved.”

            “You are already involved, Karolina, everyone tell you their stories.”

            “Well, that’s true, but no one do I care more about than you and R”

            “You tell that to everyone,”

            “No, I swear”

            “Who the fuck is R”

“I have given you like tons of hints, he is the person I care a lot about,”

“Well there aren’t many R’s at the restaurant, and less that you care about, but I don’t think who I’m thinking about is right.”

“It probably is”

“I just don’t seem like his type and then well he’s …I don’t think I’m right.”

“It is”

“Ryan?”

She nodded.

“Really, what the hell, it doesn’t seem like it, Im so confused.”

She smiled and kept a silence.

“They are friends, well sort of, OMG. I am going to feel so strange around him. I don’t even want to go to work today. He is going to be there and so is B and so is Tati.”

“You have to go to work, because you have to sort it out with Tati, and she will know you are avoiding her. B I think you should forget about, trust me you are way to mature for him.”

“And Ryan, he knows I was going to tell you sooner or later.”

“Oh, great…” I said as I finished the last bite of my crepe.

She smiled at me and pushed aside our plates.  “Okay, ready for work?”

“Ummm, no”

“Okay great lets go drop you off home.”

“I’m calling off,”

“You wont, Tati will be more disappointed in you, you don’t want that do you?”

“No, I guess I have enough with my mom”

“How is that going by the way?”

“Okay, she is taking it less harsh, she talks to me now and want to go out, so I guess its okay.”

“See, everything has a solution…”

And with that we walked to the car and she doped me off.

I thanked her again and she gave me a parting hug, “See you tomorrow at work.”

I turned around and waved.

“Look extra pretty tonight,” she said as she pulled away.

No time for me to answer back. I was so confused.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

           

           

                

            

 

 

 

 

 

           

           

           

 

middle work thoghts..

•March 4, 2009 • Leave a Comment

I have mixed thoughts about my life now.. Sadly I got a red light ticket so now I owe.. 500 dollars to the DMV… then I pay rent, bills, food… well I’m technically broke… what the hell… Anyway… 

Sometimes I like it sometimes I don’t and then my mother asked me to move back in with her…

What will I do?

I wish I had more time to write.. but I have to go back to workie…

random doubts

•February 16, 2009 • 1 Comment

So it finally came true. I moved out of my house. But its not as great as I thought… well you see my roomies are never home… no interaction….. anyway more on that later… I feel soooooo lonely and strange and like I cant be myself…. I think its worse than home… and thats a lot to say. 

I don’t know if it was the right decision… but I can’t backtrack now… What a sad thought… to want to go  back… oh, well thats life….

I really feel like I want to write more, but sadly i don’t have words to write…

Everything else is going great… yup yup great (just like frosted flakes) work is cool, school is awesome, everything is fine and my new room looks cute but…. but…. I want to go back home…

exited…..

•February 4, 2009 • Leave a Comment

its pretty official… i umm… i am movign out… i dropped stuff at my new place… should be outta the house by the weekend…

somehow though im not as exited as i though…

•February 3, 2009 • Leave a Comment

The thing that hurts the most is that you don’t trust me

You don’t believe me, when I speak,

There is a veil of doubt in every word I say

 

You look at me and I know, I know that there is wonder in you thoughts

The smile is not true and the nod is simple to keep me quiet

 

I know that I have changed

And I know that I have lied

And I know that I grew up

Maybe to fast for you?

 

But It hurts me much

That you stopped believing in you little girl

And I wish that I could cry

Like I used to before

But I have also learned strength beyond my years

 

could not cry

•February 1, 2009 • Leave a Comment

I went into the walking for about 5minutes yesterday. I wanted to cry, to sit on top of those salad containers, hide behind the pastas and cry, simply cry and let my sobs be hidden by the sound of the cooler. I wanted to sit there for a long time, and that the sound of the outside hectic restaurant stay outside. I didn’t want anyone to look for me, I wanted peace and quiet, i wanted to cry I really did, I wanted to cry. But duty would not let me… and I went out again and finished four more hours of work, i smiled I made other people smile and then … when the night was over I could not cry anymore…

C’est la vie… et il n’ya pas quelque chose je peus faire!!

•January 30, 2009 • Leave a Comment

so today i remembered one of my favorite quotes from John Lennon, “Life is what happens when we are busy making other plans.”

And I can really apply it to my life ever since I was born.

Plan: parents were going to buy a house

Life: they got divorced

Plan: mom had new job, getting good along

Life: dad comes back we move to california… goodbye family

Plan: I was going to be a journalist get my BA and MA and work for CNN and ABC

Life: go into restaurant managemtn, culinary arts

Plan: save money to open a bakery with mom

Life: gave may saving for a new car… moving out bare speak to my mom

So I meditated about that today, about how much life changes. One day something is one way and the next the whole world and everything within it has changed.

I’m sure that I have bored you to death with the way things changed at work.. how i quit … came back etc.. blah, blah, blah

but the same thing is going on at home…

I used to be like coffee and cream with my mommy…

now we say hi, we speak a little maybe 50 words a day. LOL

thinks its funny but its not.. it hurts me…

I barely cry… i havent cried in like ages… that makes me sad too… I think sometimes its good to let it out…

And well im sure there is many other things that have changed in my life, that have happened while I was “making other goals” 

Im sure many things have happened while “I wrote my plans and dreams.. neatly in blue and pink ink.

as the french say,,, C’est la vie

the imaginary conversation 10

•January 25, 2009 • Leave a Comment

My hair was messy, falling awkwardly around my face. I had glasses on, and my makeup having lasted all morning was wearing off. I sat there not caring about how I looked, my laptop rested on my stomach and me head rested lazily on the bedpost. I sat playing sad songs, eclectic songs, songs my parents would play… I left my heart in San Francisco, and Imagine… songs from musicals … the winner takes it all, Chiquita, think of me… simple songs with soft melodies that make you ponder and maybe even shed a tear. Continue reading ‘the imaginary conversation 10′

Lost in the world…

•January 23, 2009 • Leave a Comment

so remember like two posts ago when i said no more spending and no more drinking till my bday…

well… that went down the drain…. i have spent like crazy… what the fuck?

so this is for true… i know its just one month or less but for real… no more drinking!!!

and no more spending way beyond the necessary….

like nope…..

i will spend like 50? a week

okay nway yesterday idk how much i spent…. i went to the yard house again

and then bought captain and coke while i drove..

OMG!! and then we went to a guys house who we didnt know

nothing happened… u knwo?

but i dont know i feel like a whore….and an alchoholic… i have drank 3 out of 5 days… 

monday? wensday? thursday?

does that make me ? idk

i want to stop….